So, some of you might remember last year at this time, when I
wrote about looking for a pair of new, every-day winter boots.
I still don't have any.
Let me explain. (Because I have a long-drawn out story for
every topic.)
You see, Fall is somehow always my busiest time of the year, and so when MIL emailed with her sweet offer of getting me boots, I was delighted, and immediately started looking--but just didn't have much free time to do so, and had to even figure out what I really wanted in a boot to begin with. So I looked and looked and thought and thought, and think now, one year later, I am finally ready to choose a pair.
I know. I take some things just a little too seriously.
But really--good boots are a lot of money! So if I am going to throw down a couple hundred bucks on boots (or ask MIL to), they had better meet all my needs, look great, and make me happy when I look at my feet. (And if they are subtly Steampunk, that's the icing on the cake ; ). I only have so much room in my closet, and certainly don't want a pair of boots dominating the real-estate if they are not worth it. So it was important to me to research carefully, to find something that would meet my needs and that I would be happy with for a long time.
Here's the funny part--here in CA, winter weather means cold rain. Guess what I have worn for at least the PAST FOUR YEARS for rainy-day winter gear?
Without socks, because of course they would get wet. So for FOUR YEARS I have had cold, wet feet all winter long as I was out and about--but it was kinda practical because they would dry fairly quickly once I was indoors. And I would carry a pair of socks with me in my purse, so if I went to a friend's house, for example, I would slip on the socks when I got there and my feet dried off and then I would be warm and cozy.
Clearly not an ideal situation, though.
Now, I *did* have a pair of boots, from when we lived in CO, that I wore for years and years. At first I wore them almost daily in the winter, then when the weather necessitated them, then got to the point when I only wore them to church and when we visited my in-laws, since those are the times bare feet in wet crocs will get you really weird looks and negative comments. But those boots were not waterproof, and they were ugly. No,
really, I thought they were ugly when I bought them in Colorado about 12 years ago--but at the time I was just beginning teaching at the U of CO, Denver, and needed a pair of good winter boots that would get me through the snow but also be attractive enough to wear in the classroom. I could not find any I liked, but needed
something, so I settled on an ugly pair that met the basic needs. They were kind of like black lace-up combat boots, except not nearly as cool; something about the toe shape was just a little too conservative, and they had a pebbly texture that was not my favorite. They cost me something like $50 and at the time I thought that was a LOT of money. So I wore those ugly, utilitarian black boots for
twelve years, and frankly--to my disappointment--they were holding up great and probably could have lasted another twelve. But when I realized last year that I had long been chosing to have cold, wet bare feet over wearing those boots--I decided I had gotten my money's worth out of them and could justify having a pair that was actually waterproof and that I liked.
So I gave them to Goodwill. I
hate holding on to things I don't even like--that was so fun and liberating! Release them to the world, to let them go bless someone else. : )
And now, with my Dear Husband's blessing, I get to pick out new waterproof boots that I will actually like and wear!
Best of all, MIL offered AGAIN to buy me a pair for my birthday! Whoo-hoo!
I spent last week making sure I knew what was out there, so knew what my options were, and just ordered some to try from
Zappos. It was soooooooo fun going back to my old posts about Steampunky winter boots and choosing some to try. But I had to be practical and make sure I was getting boots that were actually waterproof (not just cool-looking) and boots that would work with the clothes I already own (and not some fantasy wardrobe that lives in my head).
Here are the ones I tried, and how it went:
These were attractive enough, and very nicely made, but frankly nothing special. They were also half a size too small, at least, I could not even get my foot in them.
These were cuter, and also nicely made, but also too small.
These were my favorite of the tall boots. They were sized much better, and they were quite comfortable in my regular shoe size, albeit with a medium weight sock (I am kicking myself that I did not think to put on my usual thickness of winter socks to see how that affected the fit). They fit me perfectly at the ankle and the calf, and looked soooooooo cute. And in this color they are totally neo-Steampunk. And part of the reason I really like the svelte ankle design is that I have thin legs but rather stumpy ankles--it was a thrill to see boots that actually made my ankles look attractive. ; )
These boots were my second favorite. They too were well made and comfortable (in those medium weight socks at least), and absolutely adorable, esp. in this "weimerander" color. The color is not as Steampunk, and would not complement my wardrobe quite as well, but they are still neutral (so in theory would go with anything) and the color was just so perfect for the design I would probably not like them as well in a different color. BUT I found they do some in a more classic steampunk brown at the company
website. So that would in theory be an option.
I tried all those high boots just because they are SO DARN CUTE and because I wanted to. They are all waterproof leather, well-made, and some of them are not even overly expensive (you can find them cheaper at other sites than
Zappos, but I love to use
Zappos for trying things because they are so great and fast with free shipping and returns. So if I find what I want elsewhere for a much better price, I will return to
Zappos and reorder them from the cheaper place, factoring in shipping in the price of course; but over the years I have bought enough from
Zappos for my husband and kids that I don't feel like I am taking advantage of their generous try-them-out-on-us policies). But the problem with those cute high boots is that they are not as practical with my current wardrobe. They work best with leggings, tights, and skinny jeans.
I do wear leggings sometimes, and would be glad to wear tights and skirts with them--but my skirts are mostly full and long, and that's not what I tend to reach for on a rainy day, you know? I do not own skinny jeans--I am thin overall, but proportionally hippy, so the skinny jeans I try just don't fit at all--if they fit my hips they are too baggy in the butt and/or too loose in the waist. And I imagine even I did find a pair that fit right, it would accentuate those hips and not in a good way. So, I am a boot-cut jean gal--I don't care if that style is no longer the trend, they look good on my shape. BUT as you can imagine, you can't wear high boots with those kinds of jeans. Even if you can get the leg of the jeans over the boots, they make the jean leg stick out all funny where the top of the boot is.
So, already knowing that would be an issue, I tried the only other pairs of even remotely steampunky waterproof leather boots on
Zappos:
Except I realized after I ordered them that these two pairs of
Pikolinos are not truly waterproof; they are waterproof treated, which would be better than what I already have, but not as good as I would want. Also,
Pikolinos are expensive because they are very well made shoes--but still, if I can get a pair that is truly waterproof and cute for less $. . . it just does not seem to make sense to pay for anything less than what will meet my need.
But both of these boots were so comfortable the moment I put them on. The black pair did shift a little when I walked, and I am not sure if that would be a problem during actual use or not. (I remember as a kid having rain/winter boots that lefted at the ankle subtly as I walked and tugged at the heel of my socks as it did, so that by the time I had walked to school the socks were bunched uncomfortably under the arch of my foot. I have no intentions of going there with any of these boots!) I liked the tread of the black boots best--seemed would give the best traction on slippery sidewalks--but the brown pair fit my ankles PERFECTLY and were so perfect under regular jeans--you never saw the top of the boot competing with the leg of the jean, even when walking and bending the leg.
I also liked the low buckle detail, which peeked out from under the jean hem--I am not a fan of boots that are completely boring when you just see the toe and heel under long jeans. But the main issue with these is that they are not truly waterproof, so I sent them back too.
Which leads me to the final pair I tried, and which I
thought was the winner:
Waterproof leather. Very nicely made. Good traction on the heel. Comfortable with medium-weight socks. Nice ankle shape that works well with the jeans I own. Attractive suede and buckle. They look boring when mostly hidden by jeans, but look cute with leggings and skirts. They are a brand I have grown to admire and which I believe will serve me well for many years to come. They were also the most expensive of the bunch, by far, but I really wanted to try them, so I did. And I really liked them.
And then I found them for
almost half the price, in last year's version:
And I like the smooth leather almost as well, and it is a tad more steampunk just by the leather tone. Score! So I showed them to MIL, she approved, she gave me the money for them, I returned all those boots to
Zappos and ordered these--and actually found the best price on Amazon.com, so I still got free shipping AND used reward points I had been accumulating from my credit card all year so that THE BOOTS WERE TECHNICALLY FREE.
Yippeeee!
But then they arrived yesterday, and I wanted to cry. Because I excitedly put them on--and the boots were too narrow on my left foot, actually squeezing the bones and hurting.
What the. . .?! Then I realized I was wearing my heaviest weight winter socks. They are not THAT much thicker than my medium-weight socks, and I have several pairs of these that I love to pull out when the weather is cold and wet--but they are just thick enough to hurt with these boots. Now I am kicking myself that I did not try on the boots with my heaviest socks in the beginning. . . and it is also likely that this pair of boots is built just a hair more narrow than the others, since they are different seasons and different leathers. . . . but I switched socks and the boots immediately felt more comfortable.
But now I don't know what to do. Here is my dilemna:
--I think the boots are wearable with the medium-weight sock, which is an acceptable compromise; but I still feel like the left foot does not quite have the room it should. It is not at all painful with the thinner socks, but feels snug. I would likely be able to wear them just fine. . . but what if I try them out and about and they start to hurt after a few hours? That is my fear. Because then I would not be able to return them, and the goal of this pair of boots is that I can just slip them on and wear them all day running around town on any given winter day. They HAVE to be comfortable.
--Then again, with a little breaking in, these boots might end up being totally fine, for all day wear. I might not be able to wear those thick socks, but I need some new socks anyway, so will just get more medium weight and save the thick for cozy-at-home wear.
--Amazon will take the boots back, but I can't exchange for the next size up because it is unavailable.
--I would have to make a straight return, and I am afraid I will lose those reward points in the process. (maybe not, but things like this have happened before--and I might not know until after I make the return. . . if I don't have to take the chance I would rather not.)
--Since the boots ended up being FREE, with the use of those reward points, and since MIL gave me money for the boots, I actually have the freedom to try these and see if they work, and can get a different pair later if I need to. . . (and I am sure I could re-sell them on eBay and get a decent bit back even if they are worn. . . )
--Or I could even go ahead and get one of the tall boots I tried and really liked, because I know I would wear them and like them, and then I would have an acceptable pair that work with my jeans and a fabulous pair that work with everything else. . . Also, I do not have any nice
black shoes at all for cold weather, so maybe should get a pair of black boots/shoes, and maybe one of these pairs of tall boots I liked I would like just as much in black and would well meet that wardrobe desire. . .
--I don't have much room in my closet, esp. not for multiple pairs of boots (and it is really ironic to go from having no boots at all to having multiple pairs) but it would be worth it not to be spending any more time or energy thinking about finding the *perfect* pair of boots. Don't get me wrong, it has been very fun to look at boots, and imagine what boots would work with my clothes best, what boots are practical and yet a wee bit steampunk. . . I have thoroughly enjoyed the process. But the rainy season has begun, and I just want to have a pair of boots now, darn it!
And last night I even dreamed about boots. In my dream, I had found two pairs of leather boots that I had "forgotten about" tucked away in storage. They were both kinda Dr. Marten style, pretty clunky and tough, and one pair was tall and the other one was a low pull on. The tall pair was green. The low pull-on pair was red. They both had black clunky soles and black detailing. They were actually much more like something I would have liked in college than anything I would wear now. But I remember the feeling in the dream of being SO HAPPY just because I had a pair of waterproof winter boots and did not have to worry about it anymore.
Which means it is time to get this all resolved and
end the drama.
This is where I need all of you! PLEASE leave feedback and let me know your opinion! I am specifically trying to decide:
--what to do about keeping or trying to return the "Camilla" boots I got.
--whether or not I should get a tall pair of boots, either instead of the "Camilla" boots, or in addition to.
If I decide to get a tall pair of boots, then I will be soliciting more advice on which ones. But these two questions seem like the logical first to address.
I formally solicit your advice! Please be liberal with your words and helpful intentions. Remember this is all about a pair of casual, practical, every-day winter/wet weather boots.
(After we decide this issue, I'll gladly tell you all about the dressy boot success I had earlier in the year, which I have been meaning to share for a long time!)
Thank you all! I look forward to your comments.
