words i am pondering today



Do your little bit of good where you are; it is those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.--Desmond Tutu


Monday, October 4, 2010

Random snippets: a

There are so many things floating around in my head I want to blog about. I have mentioned before that ideas get stuck up there and keep circling, circling, like all that plastic in the north Pacific gyre, never escaping, never completely dying away. . . . Really, as I tell DH, I blog mainly to maintain some hold on my sanity. Parenting and homeschooling sucking most of my mental abilities, then the flotsam clogs up the rest--gotta get it out somehow! Lucky you. ; )

So I'm going to make this a snippets week--to release little odds and ends that have been swimming around up in there. . . (and so I can have the fun of blogging without having the pressure of making coherent, fully-fleshed out ideas.)

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I love old-fashioned books.  The ones with charming characters, timeless stories, quaint attitudes and wholesome values (which usually match up with my values too!), details which bring the past to life, and lovely old-timey artwork.  The Secret GardenThe Railway ChildrenAll-Of-A-Kind FamilyGone Away Lake.  Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm.  A Little Princess.

There is very little contemporary literature that can compare with these works in the quality of the storytelling and the value of the ideas within.  The best I have come across are The Mistmantle Chronicles.  And The House of Thirty Cats.  The Penderwicks comes close. 

But I have realized there is one drawback to my children being reared on mostly old-fashioned books:  their vocabulary shows it.  Usually this is charming.  Sometimes, it is pretty funny.  Earlier this year Sunny wrote a poem about Spring, in which I required her to assign a feeling to the season.  The resulting poem:

Spring is Gay

A Five Senses Poem


Gay is the color of shining yellow.

Gay sounds like robins singing.

It feels like a loving hug from my Mom.

It smells like fresh honey and jasmine blossoms.

Gay tastes like pancakes drenched with syrup and berries.

So unfortunate how her word choice distracts the reader from fully appreciating her lovely imagery.  But I could not bear to tell her not to use the word, since she was technically using it in its original sense.  Why spoil the word for her just yet?  And while we talk a lot about the things of this world, we have not yet deally delved into the topic of homosexuality.  We know some families who have two mommies or two daddies, so at some point her own observations and thinking will bring the topic up for discussion.  But until then, no need to get into unnecessary explainations about political appropriations of language. . . .

But the other day came another classic.  Happy was telling me about how Smiley loves a certain little red rooster toy, which they taught him to call "Cock."  I did a good job keeping a straight face while she was telling me about it, but it was hard: "Smiley loves his Cock.  He loves to hold his Cock.  Whevever I am holding his Cock, he wants it and hollers at me, 'Cock! Cock!'  He gets mad if he does not have Cock."

Etc.

When I told DH about it, he blamed me.  I protested my innocence, and thought about where Happy would have heard that word in a book. . . And found the answer in the pages of Mother Goose (a 1999 edition, I might add!):

The cock crows in the morn
To tell us to rise,
And he who lies late
Will never be wise:
For early to bed
And early to rise
Is the way to be healthy
And wealthy and wise.

7 comments:

  1. I am DYING laughing. How adorable and innocent they are. I agree that you should keep them that way as long as possible - no need to dirty up a word.

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  2. That was a great laugh out loud moment for my morning...love it!!!

    I was recently secretly pleased that Julia proclaimed her two favorite books to be The Secret Garden and A little Princess. For the longest time it was all the Little House books. This child reads all kinds of books and so I was a little surprised it was the classics that have captured her but I am glad. She is currently reading all of the "A life of faith" series(es?). They seem a bit grown up but seeing as how they are religious I think it is OK. I haven't read any myself.

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  3. I have always thought that it is too bad when such good words take on other meanings.

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  4. So glad some of you moms are getting a chuckle. : )

    Susan, that just makes me like Julia all the more--those are some of my favorite too.

    I had not heard of that series yet, so thanks for the tip--am looking them up now! There is another series I just found out about, based upon real historical figures, called "Daughters of the Faith" series. I have read one, about a pioneer girl whose caravan was attacked by a Native American tribe and whose family was killed, and who was taken captive. Very cool story, with lots of historical detail, and yet an awesome focus on the individual choice to choose bitterness and hate or to allow oneself to be redeemed. . . I highly recommend it, and will be interested in trying others in the series.

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  5. Okay, so I thought the gay poem was funny...until I reached the cock story.

    Oh. My. Goodness.

    Seriously hilarious!

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  6. S has enjoyed the "Daughters of Faith" books, and loved "The Hobbit" and "The Lord of the Rings" books. Just wait, it gets a lot harder to find good books when they are teenagers. One of the things I have done is reread some of my old fantasy books and have graded them in a notebook for age appropriatness; if the girls want to read something when I'm not home they can check the folder to find an approved book. And I read some of the books their friends are reading; I'd rather let her read the book, and discuss any concerning topics, than have them feel like they might want to sneak around behind my back. So far it's working- my girls do know a girl who is behaving that way and have commented on how wrong she is, and how sad it is that she can't talk to her parents. Having said that, I still insist that the book be age appropriate- nothing rated R!

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  7. Ooooh, I like that notebook idea! And I agree with you about not necessarily censoring all things, and instead using them as learning opportunities. great ideas!

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